It's quite isolated on the farm, though we have got to know people over the years when they've been staying in what used to be the holiday cottages. But they're no longer holiday lets and we are now renting them out to permanent tenants. This obviously means we'll have neighbours. On our farm. Almost on our doorstep. Am I anxious?
You bet I am.
On the upside, I'm looking forward to getting to know new people and hopefully making a friend or two, but on the downside (and there's always one with me isn't there...) I'm hoping we will still have our little corner of paradise to ourselves. So far we have one of the cottages rented to a lovely lady who, all being well, moves in next week. I've had a few viewings on the others and am waiting for answers and feedback. But it's daunting. If you live next door to people and are used to a nod and a smile whenever you hang your washing out, I guess you'll think I'm loop the loop. Everyone else thinks I'm just unsociable, which I am, very, but I'm also quite possessive of my land and so I'm vetting everyone to within an inch of their lives before either of us sign on the dotted line.
Amy's looking forward to having neighbours - she's secretly hoping a hot teenage boy will move in - and I wonder often what she'll be like when we do have people living so close by. She's been brought up living miles away from anyone and perhaps it will be a welcome change for her. The Farmer likes a chat. Especially over a cuppa and a shortbread so whoever does move in will need references of 'likes a chat and enjoys a cuppa' before he'll entertain them. I, however, would like my peace and quiet to remain intact, not to mention my privacy to be respected. But, at the end of the day, we're poor farmers who need to do a little diversification and make some extra dough. And if having a few neighbours helps us to do that, then I'll just have to live with it. And get used to it.
Eventually.
Living in a small village has been quite good for us - here we all keep ourselves to ourselves and greet each other when we pass. Occasional funerals bring the village together and I go walking with my neighbour. I know what you mean and always treasure my space. I could never live on an estate.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with it all, might be a really good thing! I can't communicate with ours much(they speak with a very heavy Bavarian accent and I can't understand a word) apart from waving, smiling and other sign language, which can be a little frustrating :D I know what you mean about space though, I spent far too long living in London flats ever to live that close to people again!!
ReplyDeleteChange is all around us, isn't it, and can be daunting - but it sounds like a good kind of change. My neighbours are great and very supportive so you could find the same happens to you.
ReplyDeleteWe live very close to others but apart from a nod and a 'good morning' we don't neighbour as such - it's not absolutely necessary unless you're that way inclined.
ReplyDeleteOh I so know how you feel. I like my privacy as well. Keep vetting but I am sure you will be surprised how well everything turns out! Good Luck oh and Happy belated New Year!!!!
ReplyDeleteha. i hope all goes well with it....i remember neighbors as a kid being awesome...having someone close to play with...neighborhoods here are different now...
ReplyDeleteTell yourself this: humans are social animals and need other people. Maybe that will help. Tee Hee
ReplyDeleteI shall keep telling myself that, Kristin. Though I could be more of an animal than human..
DeleteIts a marvellous idea to make extra money. I think its up to you to set the boundaries if things get too close for comfort.
ReplyDeleteI enjoy a natter over a cuppa & a bicky but otherwise I like privacy too. I should imagine that is the norm, isn't it?
Good Luck with it.
Maggie x
Nuts in May
The hardest part I think will be being a landlady on the doorstep. It's all ok whist it is all well. First rent issue or domestic challenge that you ant agree on, like whether something needs to be replaced or not, and you will still have to see them everyday. Landlady is a challenging role and the ability to hide is a godsend sometimes.
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean which is why I have an agent doing all the bitty stuff for me! The lady moving in next week is really lovely and we're looking forward to welcoming her on the farm. If I can find tenants for the remaining two cottages like her, I'll be a happy bunny!
DeleteI understand what you're saying, CJ, about having things just so for so long. However, I think it will be nice and I hope it works out for you to have neighbors. I know I would love to rent one of your cottages! I just finished reading a book about a mother-daughter book club who ventures to England to visit one of their own who did a house-swap with a family there for a year, and from their descriptions of it I know I would just adore to visit England someday. Especially your area, because of its secluded-ness I know I would love it. I'm like both you and the farmer - I like peace and quiet, but I do enjoy a good chat (and can never turn down a cup of tea, LOL).
ReplyDeleteInteresting times ahead it seems. It could work out very well for all involved. I do hope it does and a happy medium is found by all :-)
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
xx Jazzy
I think you might find it's not so bad, I'd be lonely without seeing other people around the vicinity.
ReplyDeleteGood luck, CJ. I hope that your new neighbours turn out to be really nice people who will also respect your privacy. As for the hot teenage boy...DON'T let any of those near your doorstep!! :-)
ReplyDeleteNeighbours can be better than family and friends in some circumstances. Enjoy yours, good neighbours are a gift.
ReplyDeleteI so love your posts. this one particularly lets me know that I'm not the only hermit who craves space and privacy rather than bright lights and coffee shops!! I know it's selfish but I get annoyed if there's another person within vision if I'm walking the dog - there usually isn't where I walk!
ReplyDeleteYou? Unfriendly? Never!
ReplyDeleteWe all do what we have to do...Hope the new neighbors will work out for you!
hughugs
I would love to have you as my neighbour xx you are the most friendly lady I know
ReplyDeleteWell, I guess that means no more running around the farm naked! Ha! Just kidding! Neighbors are good and bad... you never know what you are going to get! Good luck! And its nice to see you back to blogging. I live my European life vicariously...as I'm not sure I will ever get to vacation there... maybe. :)
ReplyDeleteI hope your new neighbours are nice. x
ReplyDeleteOne of them is lovely and we're looking forward to welcoming her next week when she moves in. Fingers crossed we are as lucky with the rest!
DeleteI hope they're nice enough to share a cuppa with for you - it's always nice to have someone close by for a cuppa and a slice of cake x
ReplyDeleteOh sweety *hugs* I hope they become good friends and you can look back on this worry and chuckle. I'm sure you will and you'll all be able to muck in together :)
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