Tuesday, 15 January 2013

Life On the Safe Side

Got my knickers in a right old twist yesterday when Amy was brought home from school early; a precautionary measure 'just in case' the snow fell and it became treacherous. It didn't fall, yet Amy was still brought home early. She missed another half day of school. I moaned, complained to school and said it was pathetic, ridiculous, simply not on.

Over night, the snow has fallen and we are now covered in the horrid white stuff. Yet Amy has been collected and taken to school in far worse road conditions than yesterday afternoon's. I don't get it.

Part of the reason I got my knickers in a twist was because I have a ton of work to do on the book, could really have done with a trip to the supermarket (I've got no cat food) and had a million phone calls to make, mainly regarding the cottages. So I worked on the book though couldn't do as much as I'd have liked, decided to leave the less important phone calls, and still haven't got any cat food. (Don't worry, there is a bit left and I shall be popping to the store today to stock up.) The other part of the reason why I got my knickers in a twist was because Amy has only done one and a half days at school since going back last week. She desperately needs to get into a routine; the school routine of structure, discipline and learning. We know schools close and the country grinds to a halt when it snows because a) the UK are simply never prepared, b) health and safety regulations have got to a point where we're frightened of speaking to one another, and c) it's all too easy to sue individuals and organisations these days - a slip on the driveway means a cheque for six grand and six months off school. Oh yes, we, the general public, know which buttons to press.

Let's not get carried away though, schools aren't child minding services and don't need to open their doors if they are genuinely concerned for the welfare of your child. Therefore, it is the parents' responsibility to either look after their child or find someone else to. But so many parents work from home nowadays. 'Work' is the operative word here. That means they have a job to do. They 'work'. Perhaps I'm in that fortunate position of being a 'work at home mum', but what would happen if I went out to work? When schools close and transport won't trans-port, are parents who go out to work expected to take a day off, or leave early? I have no family up here apart from my sister who is a school teacher and really, I don't have anyone I could call upon to look after Amy. Therefore, when school decide to close or the transport service decides the light dusting of snow might become a little less light, I have to down tools and say 'bugger work.' It's a damn good job I work to my own deadline because I'm really not sure how people stay employed when it's all too easy to finish early or have a day off because of a 'just in case'.

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  1. You and me both! The school and indeed friends/family don't seem to register that I WORK from home! Som,etimes I am not sure they register that I work at all....

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    1. Lol. I'm a stay at home and do nothing mum. I might as well be because most folk reckon that's what I do!

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  2. I worked in a school and only pupils over a certain age were allowed to go home if the school was closing because of bad weather, the rest were kept in school and looked after by a skeleton staff until the usual finish time.

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    1. That sounds like a good idea. I think many schools are under too much pressure nowadays and don't really have a choice, even though teachers would prefer to keep the kids in school.

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  3. I remember being the only qualified teacher looking after 60 pupils!A member of staff had been rushed to hospital and had to be assisted. I had the aid of 2 auxillaries but didn't dare do much. In the end I opened the art and craft order and passed the paint brushes round - allowing the children to feel the different thicknesses/textures. Made the experience last 2 hours until other members of staff returned.

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    1. And the kids would have learned a lot more in that 2 hour session than they would have done should they have been shipped home and placed in front of a TV!

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  4. cat food?! surely you are up to your eyes in mice on a farm?! Feeding them is just encouraging them to be lazy LOL

    Never known a school to shut for a snow day round here yet - I once went up to school when COG was still very small and asked to sign her out so we could go build a snowman - they weren't impressed lol but she came out all the same and we had a lovely snow afternoon together - I know the value of that for us was so much more that she would have ever got that afternoon at school :)

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    1. D'you know, both my cats are really fussy buggers! One in particular will only eat Whiska's pouches - she's such a diva! The little one does live on mice and birds during the day though!!

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  5. Schools do shut here when it snows hard which is not that often being down south, but as the school I work in is residential we stay open although it does sometimes mean that staff that get in have to go to the living house if the roads are too bad for the students to get in to the school. I walk in being near by and we used to have a dedicated facilitator who would walk across the fields to get to work, some 10 miles by road but a bit less across country!

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    1. That's a keen facilitator! Good on them for walking all that way.

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  6. We so rarely get snow in Cornwall that it doesn't bother us too much. Having said that, when we do, everything grinds to a halt!

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    1. Just like the rest of the UK! You'd think by now the country would be prepared!!

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  7. I saw your tweet about this and thought it was ridiculous at the time, just as I do now. It's absolutely crackers, I don't know how they expect parents to just drop everything.

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    1. I imagine many parents can't drop everything and then what do they do? It's a very difficult situation I know, but sometimes I really do think it's too easy to shut shop, so to speak.

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  8. Hello
    I went to collect my children from school yesterday to be asked for my mobile number for the parent mail so if the school is to be closed due to bad weather conditions they can text me, wtf?!?!?!?! They really make me laugh at times, when they have three numbers for me....You would think the UK had never seen snow before! By the way next follower and new blogger, I am now following you both via Blogger and Twitter.

    Twitter: @MissGeordette
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    1. This is my point - why are we not prepared again?! It's just ridiculous.

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  9. Schools close early for a reason, that reason being touched on by mrsnesbit, they are not/should not be a childminding service, their first priority is to ensure that they have enough staff to look after the children that they have, and then to ensure the safety of those staff, some of whom might have to travel long distances to get to and from their home. I'm not touching on the inconvenience of the parents, thats a totally different matter, but if they dont have the staff they have to send the children home. There is a legal requirement ratio of staff to students, and if thats not met, then the children are not adequately looked after.

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    1. Thanks, Joy. I do realise that - hence my sentence in the post about schools not being child minding services... I was trying to highlight the inconvenience.

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  10. I didn't mean to sound as if I was having a go at you, and yes, it is an inconvenience, I just felt that things should also be seen from the school's POV, they are so bound up by red tape and regulations etc., sometimes they simply have no choice. If they dont have the staff . . .

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    1. Thanks for coming back, Joy - I appreciate that. My sister is a teacher so I get her POV often and it is a nuisance with all this red tape. The rules they have to stick to can be pretty ridiculous at the best of times. To be fair to the school, it was actually the transport service that were messing me about. School were happy for Amy to stay there but transport refused to bring her home after a certain time. Thanks again.

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  11. There seems to be no logic in the school doing what they did.
    We are also expecting the white stuff here & I really hope it won't fall because I hate walking on slippery surfaces.
    It is mighty cold here though.
    Hoping you managed to keep Amy occupied while you got on........ but I know its really difficult to do that.
    Maggie x

    Nuts in May

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  12. And such is the reason why I won't get a full time employed job as I'd never get through. Imagine having to cancel fligts, trips and much more because the kids have to stay off school so much, or get excluded, or sick, or snow days etc etc. So, homeworking for peanuts it is for me..

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