Wednesday, 4 July 2007

Tagged!

Not sure how to look at it, but I’ve been tagged again. Thank you to Wakeupandsmellthecoffee, I’ll get my own back!! Seven facts, interesting or not, are listed below to help you get to know me a little better.

1. My best grade out of 7 CSE's at school was Music. I was totally miffed when there were only two of us out of a year of 100 pupils who opted to do Music. As the other girl was only capable of CSE grade whereas I was able to do O'level, the teacher decided we should both do CSE. I played the piano, the violin and together we sang “I know him so well” by Barbara Dickson & Elaine Paige. The year was 1986. It does get better...

2. I had my first epileptic seizure in the Red Sea in Eilat in 1998 after becoming completely stressed out whilst trying in vain to put a snorkel and mask on. Despite spending two days in hospital over there, it was a lovely holiday and we stayed in a beautiful five star hotel for ten days. I never did get to see the tropical fish.

3. During Christmas & New Year of 1995 I went through a self-harming phase after being rejected by someone I had fallen in love with. I stupidly thought we had a future together. My first marriage had crumbled and I lived on my own in a lovely apartment. The guy I was in love with was married. I still have scars on my left arm which will always remind me of that time.

4. My first holiday abroad was to the Algarve when I was 13 years old. We took my brother’s best friend who I had an almighty crush on! I smiled for a fortnight and was so jealous when brother and friend were allowed to go out by themselves.

5. I had an older girlfriend of whom I've known all my life fall out with me six years ago when I moved up to Northumberland. The move happened just four weeks after my dad passed on and this friend turned against me. She didn’t contact me for four years then suddenly, out of the blue, she phoned me one night expecting to be best buddies. Whether right or wrong, I can’t forgive her and told her I wanted nothing more to do with her. I think about her often. My mum has stayed in touch with her but always understood my feelings.

6. I was in labour for almost 36 hours with Amy. I was terrified of gas & air because of my epilepsy and so was given an epidural which lasted twelve hours! Amy was eventually born weighing an average 7lb 11oz. I thought I’d given birth to an elephant. I stayed in hospital for a full week recovering!

7. My husband is twenty years older than me. Do I care? NO! When we first got together I remember asking him how old he was. “51,” he replied. I felt quite faint. However, even though we don’t have a great deal in common due to our age difference, we love each other and are always there for each other. He is a wonderful father to Amy and a good husband.

There! Another skeleton has been released. Normal service will resume tomorrow.

20 comments:

  1. Crystal, there's just so much more to you than meets the eye. I don't blame you about the false friend. I've been there myself. Once it's over, it's over. Been there on the 36 hours in labour too. I don't have the health complications you do, but I do know it HURTS to have a baby no matter what size they are. Do you do anything with your musical talents now?

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  2. Lovely to read a bit about you.

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  3. I've still got the violin but don't play much but I have a piano which I play regularly.

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  4. It's always interesting and very moving to read what people have to say about themselves so well done and thanks. I've just read your previous blog and feel so sad (sorry if that's not the right word - she doesn't need sympathy so much as as a leg up) for Amy.

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  5. Oh you are lucky to be musically talented I!!!What n excitng time you have had of life so far and so much more to do and see!

    Thank you for trusting us with your story.

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  6. My Good Man is thirteen years older than me which matters but not at all!

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  7. Thanks for sharing parts of your life with us and welcome to the Purple Prose book group.It's great you want to join. How does it work?
    Look out for when I ask for suggested titles or send me a couple of titles you might have in mind.
    I then collate all the titles and publish them on my blog site, we then vote for our favourite title and the book that gets the most votes is the Purple prose choice for that month. We have about 6 weeks to read the book and then start commenting. Look forward to hearing from you Lampworkbeader

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  8. Your honesty is laudable and appreciated CJ.

    51? Pah, still young...

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  9. YOu will know from following my Orange Man blog that there are many paralells-knowing about the epilepsy, I played violin and still love the piano, I used to sing, false friends, the labour...even the self harm...mine was not physical self harm but more of a psycological self harm which I have done for years. So I do understand,... as you will probably already know...

    warm wishes
    xx

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  10. Wakeup - I think there's much more to everyone really.
    Elizabethd - thank you!
    ChrisH - Oh you are right, Amy is a happy kid always laughing, singing, never shuts up! A leg up would be great.
    Un peu - Amy is very musical too, she's even writing piano music!
    Goodwoman - It's amazing how many people have spouses miles older or younger than themselves. I know 20 yrs is a lot but hey, I prefer the old man.
    Lampworkbeader - many thanks. I shall get my thinking cap on (wherever it is) and come back to you.
    SAHD - thanks! He's 57 now and I can't help thinking that's almost 60!!
    Angel - it seems we have an awful lot in common. I'd love to meet you.
    Thank you everyone for your lovely comments, Crystal xx

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  11. Crystal, thanks for visiting me, you made a lovely comment. I enjoyed reading your list here. My husband is also 20 years older than me - Hi 5 Honey!

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  12. Interesting points. I have had a friend finish with me at the end of last year.... still very sad about it. I admire you if you can make a 20 year age gap work. Exhub2 was 9 years older than me and seemed MUCH older.... but it all depends on the individual doesnt it.

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  13. Well there you go....These tags are everywhere ...mine was a different one.... have just read below about Amy as well...makes me want to boil!

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  14. Wow, so much that is fascinating here. Your daughter, the interesting facts about you. I found the blog on destiny especially intriguing. I do so know what you mean about places calling you. I felt like that about England when I first visited it from America. I felt like that about other places since and they have always ended up being significant.

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  15. Hello from New York, Crystal.

    Thank you for your comments. There are lots of penthouses across this city (heard that there is at least one on top of my building -- but no chance of a swimming pool top of this one.)

    This is very much now a city of extremes, "average" price of condo apartments now over $1 million, but alongside lots of folks that can barely make the monthly rent.

    I liked your list of interesting bits. All sorts of things in that mixture. Probably same true of all that would be candid.

    Violin. Wow.

    Your husband is a baby compared to me!

    xo

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  16. Wow... now that is what I would call 'fascinating' facts!

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  17. Very interesting. I have also lost a long time best friend - all because of her man - I may blog about it - its quite funny really.
    I miss her terribly though.
    Great to know a bit more about you. I am only 10 years younger than my husband. My friend in the village is 20 years younger than hers. We sometimes feel older than our men actually!!!

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  18. Thank you for sharing some parts of your life with us Crystal. I dont think the age barrier should be a problem, as long as you are happy, than that is all that matters.
    Camilla.x

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